Why Your Body Deserves Protein That Doesn't Fight Back - XO Jacqui

Why Your Body Deserves Protein That Doesn't Fight Back


Here's something nobody tells you about menopause: your protein needs just went up. Way up.

Not in a "drink more shakes" kind of way. In a "your body literally works differently now and needs more fuel to do basic things like maintain muscle and bone" kind of way.

And yet, most of us are walking around getting maybe 50 grams of protein a day when we actually need 70-100+ grams. That gap? It's showing up as muscle loss, bone density issues, stubborn weight, and that general feeling of being... tired.

But here's the other thing nobody tells you: more protein won't help if your body can't actually digest it.

The Menopause Digestion Problem

When estrogen drops, so does your body's ability to break down protein efficiently. Your gut becomes more sensitive. Foods that never bothered you before suddenly cause bloating, gas, and that uncomfortable "brick in your stomach" feeling.

This is why so many women try protein powders and quit after a week. It's not a willpower issue. It's a digestibility issue.

Most commercial protein powders are loaded with:

  • Dairy (whey/casein) that can spike inflammation and insulin
  • Pea protein that's notorious for causing gas
  • Soy that raises concerns about hormone disruption
  • Gums, fillers, and artificial sweeteners that trigger bloating

Your prior digestive system could handle all that. Your menopausal body? Not so much.

Why We Chose Brown Rice Protein (And Why It Matters)

When we set out to create a protein powder specifically for women in menopause, we had one non-negotiable requirement: it had to be something your body could actually use.

Not just consume. Use.

Here's what makes brown rice protein different:

It's Hypoallergenic and Low-FODMAP

Brown rice protein is one of the gentlest proteins on the market. It's:

  • Soy-free (no phytoestrogen concerns)
  • Dairy-free (no casein, IGF-1, or acne triggers)
  • Gluten-free, nut-free, and lectin-free
  • Low in the compounds that cause gas and bloating

Translation: You can actually take it every day without your gut staging a rebellion.

It's Anti-Inflammatory

Menopause = inflammation. Joint pain, puffiness, stubborn fat that won't budge, and hot flashes that won't quit. Your body is already in a low-grade inflammatory state because of hormonal shifts.

Brown rice protein is naturally alkalizing and doesn't trigger the inflammatory response that dairy proteins often do. It keeps your system calm instead of adding fuel to the fire.

It Supports Blood Sugar Balance

One of the most frustrating parts of menopause? The blood sugar rollercoaster. You're hungry, then you're not, then you're ravenous, then you feel sick, then you need a nap.

Brown rice protein has a low glycemic index and digests slowly, giving you sustained energy without the insulin spike. That means fewer cravings, better sleep, and easier weight maintenance.

It's Rich in the Amino Acids Your Body Actually Needs Right Now

Brown rice protein is naturally high in cysteine and methionine—sulfur amino acids that support liver detox and hormone metabolism. In menopause, when your liver is working overtime to process changing hormones, this matters.

Yes, it's technically "incomplete" on its own (lower in lysine), but when paired with a normal diet that includes nuts, seeds, veggies, and whole grains, you're easily hitting all your amino acid needs. You don't need a "bodybuilder complete blend." You need gentle, digestible protein that your body can break down and use.

But Why Does Any of This Matter? Because Strength = Freedom

Let's talk about what happens when you don't get enough quality protein in midlife:

You lose muscle. Starting in perimenopause, women can lose 3-8% of muscle mass per decade. That's not just aesthetic—that's your ability to carry groceries, play with grandkids, travel without getting exhausted, and stay independent as you age.

You lose bone density. Post-menopausal women are at accelerated risk for osteoporosis. Protein (combined with resistance training) helps protect your bones.

Your metabolism slows down. Muscle is metabolically active tissue. Less muscle = slower metabolism = harder to maintain a healthy weight.

You feel weaker. And not just physically. When you feel physically strong, you feel mentally and emotionally stronger too. It's all connected.

The strength you build in your 40s, 50s, and 60s determines the freedom you have in your 70s, 80s, and beyond.

This isn't about looking a certain way. This is about being able to hike, travel, garden, dance, move furniture, and live life on your terms.

And protein is the foundation of that strength—but only if your body can digest it.

How to Actually Use Protein in Menopause (The Part That Matters Most)

Getting enough protein isn't just about hitting a daily number. It's about how you're getting it.

1. Aim for 1.0-1.2 grams per kilogram of body weight

For most women, that's 70-100+ grams per day. If you're active or doing strength training, you may need even more (up to 1.2-1.6 g/kg).

Example: A 70 kg (154 lb) woman needs approximately 70-84 grams of protein daily. If you're strength training, aim for 84-112 grams.

2. Spread it out across meals

Your body can only absorb so much protein at once (30 grams). Aim for about 25-30 grams per meal rather than loading it all into one meal.

This is where a protein powder becomes practical—it's an easy way to boost your breakfast or post-workout snack to hit that 25-30g target.

3. Combine protein with resistance training

Protein intake alone won't save your muscles. You need to give your muscles a reason to stay (or grow). That means:

  • Strength training 2-3x per week
  • Bodyweight exercises
  • Resistance bands
  • Yoga with weights
  • Whatever movement you'll actually do consistently

4. Quality matters

Choose clean, whole-food protein sources when possible:

  • Organic, minimally processed protein powders
  • Legumes, beans, lentils
  • Nuts and seeds
  • Greek yogurt (if dairy doesn't bother you)
  • Cottage Cheese
  • Animal protein if that is part of your diet. 

Mix sources throughout the week for variety and nutrient balance.

The Bottom Line: Simplicity Wins

Your body is changing. The way you ate in your 20s and 30s doesn't work as well anymore. And that's okay—it's not a failure; it's just a new chapter that requires a new approach.

You don't need complicated blends with 47 ingredients. You don't need "proprietary formulas" that you can't pronounce.

You need protein that your body recognizes, digests easily, and can actually use to build and maintain the muscle and bone strength that will carry you through the next 40+ years of your life.

That's why we built our protein powder the way we did: organic brown rice protein, clean natural flavors, a touch of monk fruit, and nothing else.

Because your body deserves fuel that doesn't fight you back.

Ready to support your strength? [Shop our menopause-specific protein powder here] and give your body the gentle, effective fuel it's been asking for.

Have questions about protein and menopause? Email us directly at info@xojacqui.com. We read and respond to every single one.


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